End –where it starts.

       You’re lucky her friend said… she smiled and moved….

Yes, she is pretty and gorgeous .she worked hard to become the best version of herself … she is bold beautiful and smart ..  she has a lot of friends, people to talk, to party ….

 One fine day she was clubbing with her friends … swaying on the beats… enjoying the music, ambiance …the party was rocking as DJ turned to Bollywood music ..Every person on the go was cheering up and dancing more enthusiastically …. and she suddenly stopped dancing .. she stood straight and looked for something all over the place, she couldn’t find her friend it appeared… something was upsetting her, she couldn’t abide the loud music so she walked out … she went out of the club and sat on an empty chair where the music was not so loud … sloping on the chair she looked around, she realized… everything was new for her … new people… new friends. New look… a new life..  and she was enjoying it,  and that’s what she wanted right? .. she questioned herself? She remained silent for some time … 

she closed her eyes and few things just passed her memory.. she realized this was the time where she met the most temporary people of her life .. people who literally came into her life for a few hours... few days or week and they vanished like they never exist… but every person she met taught a lot about life … every single person was like a new subject … new theory new practical .. she was knowing a lot about this world …. She was getting more powerful.. more strong.. more emotionless… more practical…now she doesn’t cry to herself …

 But sometimes even the stones are tickled if butterflies tease them …the heart which gets frozen with bitter experiences melts somewhere … she felt the melody .. she dared to water that blossom … but nothing more it turned out to be another chapter of her life … a new lesson new learning…

We often say be a better version of yourself …true .. but don’t let these negative powers take your grace off and make you feel deprived .just think  what matters the most, at the end of the day is just you and those 4 people in your life .. your mom your dad your sibling and your best friend, only they are constant .. further everyone will make you your priority or eliminate u from the list according to there preference.  struggling with all the acrimonious experiences of life I have learned little things about life…

Let me share some of them with you:

·         You Cannot Make Everyone Happy – 

it's ok to feel bad if you are not able to do anything for someone, but always remember .. you being an individual cannot fulfill everyone's expectations .. it is always important to think about your happiness, it is very important for a healthy living and good mental health.

·         Learn To Say No-

 it's ok if u deny someone's invitation for dinner or a date. it's ok if u don’t feel like going out with your friend. if you don’t wish to do something do not force yourself for that coz then in your mind is counted as a favor you’re doing to that person .. and when that particular person does not do the same for u .. you end up hurting your own feelings. so only say yes when you yourself want to.

·         Keep Minimum Expectations-

 Ok now if I say don’t expect its way to blunt and impossible ratio for humans .. humans are meant to expect .. but mind it that your expectations should be  minimal , for which the other person is not forced to go beyond the line or do something out of the box... on the same hand, I will say if the person is not able to keep even the smallest expectation then you are definitely in a wrong place whether it is your friend, gf/bf or any other relation. the person who does not value you and you should think about it and not put yourself into a toxic relation.

·         Embrace Yourself –

We all know this... have heard like 100 times about self-love .. we share quotes and captions and every possible thing virtually to show that we love ourselves but do we really apply it in our real world? Do we really love ourselves, accept ourself.. ? 

                        Honestly, we don’t .. We keep bragging about our broken hearts. how the other person cheated …how others fail to entertain us. How lonely we are… but I ask why? Why do we have that constant need to be loved by someone else.. Why can’t we just love ourselves enough. unknowingly we make our self so crumbly that we always want somebody else to tell us that we can be treasured. No, it is wrong.. it should end. Let’s love ourselves.. let’s not care about what others ruminate about us .. just adore ourselves generously...

I think even by making just a few changes in our life we can really make a lot of difference, we can live a more satisfied and happy life.

 This blog is not just to tell you that life is beautiful but to make myself realize that let’s not waste our precious self on some unimportant people and things around us which can just make us weak, helpless and fragile.. every day of our life is counted it is never going to come back … lets together make a difference in our life .. let's make a new world for ourselves … let's love ourselves to the moon and back .. what you guys think .. can we??

©Samruddhi Bhalke